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Hi Rajinder, Go adjustable. There are some reasonably priced adjustable bases that you can get, along with a mattress that is adjustable-friendly (either foam or pocketed coils). Try one in a showroom where you can lift your feet/lower body up until it's comfy, and the head as well. It really seems like you've been through a lot of different beds and none of them are exactly it. I would encourage you to try an adjustable to see what it's like. Stick in your budget and if you like, I can help you with some recommendations for the bases. You don't have to spend $2,000 for an adjustable bed. This isn't an up-sell. It's just when you can't find anything that works, the only way to really get a different bed is to change the shape of the surface you sleep on. Lifting the lower legs takes a lot of pressure from your back. It can really make huge difference.
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Hi Rajinder, What a journey! But this is not that difficult, honestly. You have been trying some rather dense memory foam mattresses, and that are not all created equally. That dense foam is responsible for your inability to move and that too firm feel. The memory foam beds from Bed in a Box.com use a 3lb density foam which recovers instantaneously, making it very easy to move. The reason I suggest this is because in my professional opinion, I would avoid any metal coil bed. I have seen many customers in your situation over my now 17 year career and metal coils only exacerbate your spinal issues. You need support without pressure, and only memory foam will provide this. Another bed I would consider would be the new Gemma Plush. I carry it in my store. It's the only Oeko Tex Certified Memory Foam mattress. It too is not so dense. Though I make a latex mattress as well, I would counsel against it, as latex rubber bounces energy back, making for a bit of pressure as well. Any push back by the mattress will make it painful on your back. Only memory foam will give you the pressure relief you need. Avoid toxic foams and fire barriers and avoid very dense memory foams. All the best! |
WOW! You've done your research and quite well. First and foremost go with your instincts. Having back issues makes you the best barometer of what will and what won't work. I'm only going to make one suggestion (and it's not my first choice for most people): If I were you I would consider one of the Tempurpedic Choice (air) mattresses. Usually I reserve air for my customers who are very sensitive to the normal changes in mattresses with use AND those customers who have unique support issues. You seem to fit both of these categories. Tempurpedic's air is unusual in the industry for several reasons but the one that may help you is the three chamber support system. There are two for the head and foot AND a center or lumbar chamber. Just a bed to consider. Also you may want to consider the addition (eventually) of an power (adjustable) base - the ability to raise your head or feet can take some pressure off. If the mattress you purchase next will work on an adjustable base, it gives you options down the road. |
Thank you Joe and Ernest. I understand about the memory foam but I find it hard to move in as I sink a lot.. depending on the thickness layers. @Ernest, thank you for the comments.... as for the tempur choice I think its out of my price range for the moment.... I'm leaning towards the Kingsdown but the coil gauge concerns me still.. Thank you both rajinder Rajinder, not all memory foam feels that way. 5-7lb foam does. The beds like Bed In A Box.com and Gemma are made with 3.5lb foam, not very dense, thus the foam responds immediately and does not leave you feeling like you are in a hole. I sell hundreds of these a month. |