Bed looks great when made up, no lumps bumps or divots

I love the look of our bed when the spreads on, it looks so comfortable, and I love when I first get into our bed but.... my side needs to be softer, my hips need to feel cushion, and it doesn't . I bought a better mattress cover to give me some added softness and it helps a bit. I'm working at reducing the air pressure gradually to find my perfect comfort zone