Beautyrest Black Label $$ firm bed another Macys bed is SUNK

This is my 3rd Macys bed. Stearns n Foster. Firm bed. English Meadow. Sunk in middle. Now, this Beautyrest Black Label $2000.00 Kamryn Firm bed, has done same thing. After few weeks, it sunk. Like Titanic. I am 5' 4", 148 lbs. Avg USA weight for female (true!). And I sunk. Hold on kids, it gets worse. As a perimenopausal women (good times folks), i now have night sweats (bummer) time to time-not nightly. Last 4 mins. so, i bought this 'cool' gel firm bed, for: coolness, support, comfort. As a clinician in healthcare, I was thrilled. Till got home.Its cool alright, until i got 'hot'. ...then, it 'saved' the heat .For 10minutes but brochures, says 'holes /weaves/breathes to keep you cool' . Not so. And then I sunk. So, Titanic meets hot summer day = no sleep, and an empty wallet. Macys, does not 'own' any ownership, Like Shaggy song' wasnt me' How can you charge $2000 and look other way. Must be me. Of course it is, a dietitan , healthy, it must be me. Must. I must be putting Charlie Brown rocks in my pants at night. LOL. Or, is Macys using 'poor quality grade foam' since at discount prices (see industry websites on low-quality foam and how it makes beds sink), underpaid staff making beds on assembly Ford truck line. No, I think Macys , you are know like Sears. And Wal Mart. Too big, too fast, 'get em out and sell' industry. Mattresses are huge commitment, and to not return one is dreadful. I am returning one today. and they want me to buy a Hotel Vitagenic Gel Firm instead. I am afraid to (cant blame me). REviews arent good. I think I need a tent. A nice tent. Beach towel in my bedroom. As I can take my $2000 and go to Caribbean. If anyone knows about Macys Hotel Collection (guy said 'they are hand made) -he is wrong, the Aireloom high end-cant pay my mortgage ones are - Hotel Vitagenic Gel-Firm for $2000-$3000 , let me know........what has happened America, to great beds? Kathie Lee, are you out there? maybe her shops have a straw bed I can use........sorry, I am not sleeping, can you tell? LOL Joanne from Boston......................